It’s the “Freakin Weekend” folks so as well as being able to chill and do as you please for a couple of days, you also get to kick back and read our latest confession. Outta Barbados comes the tale of poor RP, she wrote this…
I feel so embarrassed to own up to this confession; I have not even told my mother or my best friend about it I feel so humiliated. I am blessed with a wonderful fiance (I’ll call him Jon) we are very much in love and getting married next year. Jon and I also enjoy a really active and spontaneous sex life. There is no time or place that is out of bounds for us. So you can imagine my surprise when at the beginning of the Lenten season Jon would allow me to know that he is “giving me up for lent”.
At the time I laughed and asked him what he meant by that and he said he meant that he does not want to see me until the end of lent. It doesn't happen to me very often but I was speechless. Carol; Jon and I are in the middle of planning our wedding as well as looking for an apartment to rent and he is going to just up and tell me he does not want to see or hear me for the next 50 odd days, he has got to be a mad man.
I asked him why he suddenly wants to give up something for lent and why me and he said he just wanted to see if he could do it and that it’s nothing to do with me. How can it be nothing to do with me when I am so negatively affected by his actions? Does that sound even remotely fair to you? I cannot believe that he could be so insensitive and inconsiderate considering how busy we both are with our plans for the future.
I would really like to hear your opinion on this Carol because I just do not know what to do. Jon is not a religious man and in the 5 years that we have been together he has never once given anything up for lent. So why now? Is there something else going on here? Please help me; I am going crazy right now.
Hmmmm!! Me tink Jon nah tell d trut!
Although I am a great believer in a person being innocent until ‘proven’ guilty, I have to say I smell a rat here. Look at the evidence; you are two people in love, you are in a committed relationship and soon to be married. You have a great sex life and are looking for a home together. But yet a non-religious man suddenly wants to give up his fiance for lent. I would be far less suspicious if you said he usually gives something up for lent or has at least done so once before. But you say this is the first time in 5 years. Hmm!!
Also; judging by the way you have described your sex life I find it odd that he would suddenly want to abstain for such a lengthy period of time, and I have to say that I am just not buying that story about “just wanting to see if I could do it”. If you just casually want to see if you can do something you give up chocolate, or alcohol or chefette or some shite like that but giving up your fiance??? That’s like giving up an arm or a leg.
But what to do about it; that’s the question.
I think you may want to talk to your fiance again. Try to get him to open up to you. It could be that he is getting nervous about your wedding or maybe he has some doubts about your relationship. I do not think this is the time to be apart. Some serious dialog is needed right now, so talk to him.
Either that or secretly follow his ass around and find out if he’s humping someone else.
RP Needs Your Help FOLKS!!!
Send her fiance a Dear Jon letter for lent?
Find herself a replacement Jon for lent?
Or Whip out the old vibrator and pray for lent to pass in a hurry?
You know what to do…Lets us know in the box below!!
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