It’s beginning to look like the women of Barbados have real skeletons in their closets. J Today we have another story out of Bim. This one comes from a lady who refers to herself and the “Hockey Warrior” and she wrote this…
This is an event that happened a long time ago but it will remain forever in my brain. It is also the event that my family say changed me as a person.
I was in my teens when I started dating this guy; let’s call him C for now. I adored this boy and I would've done anything to make him happy. We were dating for a few months (long I thought for a teenage relationship). I also had this friend called M who was my best friend at the time and who I trusted more than anyone else.
A few months after I started seeing this boy things started to get bad at home. My parents were going through marital troubles and I was stressing about that and my exams at school to the point where I was beginning to suffer from stress. My doctor had me on medication similar to anti-depressants even though I was under the age of 18. C was accustomed to calling me and chatting till late at night, but after I was put on the medication I often fell asleep early and he began to complain that I was ignoring him. You would think the boy would be more understanding especially after I told him what was going on in my life.
Meanwhile I failed to realize that he was getting close to M but since the two of them weren't on speaking terms before I came into the picture I was just glad that they were being civil. If we had a fight or anything M would always be the person I would talk to and she seemed to give good advice. I didn't have many female friends at the time so I was glad that I had someone to talk to if I was feeling upset, which I felt often.
A few weeks passed and one day at school another friend of mine sat me down and told me that the relationship between M & C was not what it seemed and that I needed to investigate. So I went to her class and confronted her and the whole story came pouring out. She and C had been hooking up behind my back for months, having sex and all. At that time I was so religious but I was waiting till our one year anniversary to finally have sex with him. As I said...I loved this boy.
I do not know what came over be me; all I remember is wanting to killing this girl, I grabbed her and started to kick and punch her and she was begging me to stop, but instead I pulled my pen knife and I swear I would have stabbed her but my teacher ran in and manage to get it off me. I got sent to the principal office but the principal knowing I was normally a good behave child let me go especially since he could see my eyes were blood red.
All afternoon I sat watching the clock, I could not wait for school to dun so I could go in town and confront C. We used to meet every evening and travel home together since we lived in the same parish. The friend who had told me about C & M used to play hockey and I asked her if I could borrow her hockey stick, she said yes and I took it with me to town. When I see that boy my blood ran hot all over again. I ran at him with that hockey stick and I beat his ass in the middle of town, even though I was much shorter than him. In the end he finally admitted to sleeping with M.
For weeks after I would curse him beyond reason when I saw him. When I saw him online the cursing would continue. He had a good girl and he wanted a slut. I talk to neither of them now but my friends now say I don't trust anybody man or woman. When your best friend and your boyfriend betray you, it hurts so deep that if you take that knife out your heart you will bleed out. They ruined a part of my teenage years and changed my personality but I am still glad I got my revenge.
And to this day, I still love to see a good strong, well-made hockey stick.
I’m lost; let me see if I understand this correctly. You had a best friend you trusted with your life. You had a boyfriend that you loved with all your heart. The two of them betrayed you by having sex with each other, and you got your revenge by beating not one but BOTH of them in the same day. Is that correct? And if so I just have one question….
What Exactly Are You Confessing Too?
They betrayed you! You beat them! Seems like a fair exchange to me.
All I will say to you is I hope that now you have gotten your story off your chest, you will leave it in the past where it belongs and move on with your life. Do not allow two people to make you distrust ALL people. Exercise caution yes because there is many a trickster in the world. However there are also if not more genuine loving and caring people. Make it your intention to only focus on the kinds of people you want in your life and I am certain that you will find them.
So; what do you think?
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