Confession #24 – My Husband is Sneaking Out of Our Bed at Night
Galore! OMG! We have so many confessions coming in every day now, thank you all
so much for continuing to send us your stories because without you Confessions
of Real Black Women would not exist. Now today we have a confession coming from
sunny Florida and the lady in question wrote this….
I want to
ask you a question. I am married to a nice guy. We have a good marriage and two
great kids. My problem is my husband has begun getting up in the middle of the
night and going downstairs to his office computer to watch porn. At first I wasn't really bothered but when it became a nightly thing I got concerned.
I sat my husband
down and had a conversation with him about it. He told me that he still loves
me and that he loves having sex with me. He said watching porn was just a
little fun, nothing serious. I accepted what he said as he is my husband and he
has always been honest with me.
A few weeks
later during sex my husband called out a name that was not mine. I immediately
jumped up and demanded to know who this woman was he was thinking about. After
a great deal of arguing he finally admitted it was the name of his favorite porn
star. I told him I did not believe him but he took me to his computer and
showed me a video with her image and name at the beginning.
I do not
know what to do. I think my husband is obsessed with pornography. He says he is
not but I think I am losing him to a woman I can’t possibly compete with. Please
Carol I would like to know what you think I should do.
you have my condolences!!!
Porn can be
a really dangerous thing if not managed properly. I believe your husband has a problem and is in
denial. I do not think he intentionally meant to get caught up in it but he
has, and calling out his favorite porn stars name is just the beginning. If
left unchecked he will so stop being able to perform with you unless he sees
some porn. You need to get him some help
and do it fast in order to get the matter in hand. (Pardon the pun) J
to you!! What’s a Porn Widow to do?....